Alan from Georgia
July 31st, 2010
(Sorry about these funky dates - this is really Aug 10, but I’m having some tech issues!)
I can’t write about the Rich Dad Poor Dad seminar with our talking about Alan, our wealthy, real estate investing expert, seminar leader (who wouldn’t share his last name). I have to confess that at first, I was deeply turned off by this man. He was opinionated, cocky and made comments about women, immigration and Obama that didn’t sit well with me. Oh, and he talked about his kids, but he wasn’t wearing a ring and there’s nothing that bugs me more than those rich guys that keep trading in for younger wives. I thought I had him figured out, good ole Georgia boy that he appeared to be. But he was funny and engaging…and I was going to be with him for three straight days so I thought I better figure out a way to deal with him.
He shared lots and lots of his expert knowledge. He shared stories about his life path and what had gotten him where he is. He shared the tragedies that he had experienced and how that had shaped him. And, oh yeah, he is married. Been married about 25 years to the same woman. And while he was telling us the story of how his father had died young and made him promise to care for his mother after he was gone, he had a picture of his three kids up on the screen. Ok, this is one seriously wealthy family. We’ve all seen examples of wealth corrupting kids - flashy clothes, plastic surgery, drugs etc. but these kids radiated love, they oozed self-love, healthy self-confidence and happiness. Alan was seriously winning me over and proving me wrong. (Actually I think it was the picture of the kids that won me over completely.)
Alan shared lots of stories of how he had been generous with his wealth- it wasn’t bragging at all - just sharing. And these stories were hugely helpful for me to see how much more helpful you can be if you have more money. As he said, if you’re a jerk when you have no money, you’ll be a bigger jerk with more money. If you’re a generous person with not very much money, you’ll be able to be a much more generous person with more money. Let’s see….there was saving his sister’s dream home when her husband got fired, making sure all her kids made it through college, tipping waiters $400 (!!!), helping at-risk youth, sharing his real estate knowledge with others, and of course teaching these Rich Dad seminars.
The final blow for my negative beliefs about Alan came at the end of the second day. He was inspiring us (and yes, totally hard selling us!) to go for our dreams and he posted that famous Marianne Williamson quote! Marianne Williamson!!! Now Alan from Georgia was gettin’ all “woo-woo” on me and seriously speaking my language! He also talked about the next revolution being the empowerment of women. Everything in my woo-woo circles is all about the rise of the feminine.
Alan from Georgia had officially won me over. And I felt the Universe winking at me, a sweet little reminder that I shouldn’t be quite so judgmental next time.
Thanks for everything Alan from Georgia! Hope to see you again someday!